We have been together for 17 months and he is 21 and I am 19 I have been living on my own since I was 17 I am very responsible and pay my rent etc. My boyfriend on the other hand is still living at home with mommy. I found out today that he has been looking for a place on his own. I was excited cause I will have no where to live soon and would love to take the next step with him. He told me that he does not want to move in with me and that he wants to live on his own, he said that he is scared that we will break up when we are living together etc..I told him that if we do then we do but after all this time and all the ups and downs and we still love each other so much i'm sure we are not going to break up in a long time if at all. He just refuses to live with me. I also asked him if he would live with a different girl and he said possibly yes if that is the roommate he chooses....I feel really uncomfortable with this whole living on his own thing....what do you think this all means? I have a bad feeling in my tummy about this.